For First Time Moms

To All Moms,

Whether you are a new mom or an experienced mom, do what feels right to you. What I am meaning is you don't always have to take peoples advice about parenting. I learned the hard way. If you what to do something containing your child and a family member does not like it, who cares, its your child not theirs. Yes they have more experience, if your a first time mom but you don't always have to listen. Now when it comes to medical problems, I would say to listen because they know the tricks and the trades that us new moms don't. They know the remides, quick fixes and helpful ideas to get you and your child through the sick times in life.
EXAMPLE: Say you want to let your child go to your sisters house and you know she will be taken very well care of but you mother/mother-in-law/ect. don't agree with it, do what you want. This is a prime example of what I am talking about. Some people in the world try to act like they own the child when they really don't. That's when you got to put YOUR foot down and say hey, this is my child and if I feel like its a good and safe idea/thing to do, then I will do it.
Hope this little bit helps.
More to come!

-xoxo